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Birth Father Rights
State By State
Each state has their own specific laws regarding the rights of the birth father. It is important to talk to an attorney in your state to get legal advice regarding the birth father and none of the below information is or is intended to be legal advice. ‘Escalated’ fathers are those who are married to the birth mother, their name is on the birth certificate, or they have provided support prior to the adoption. In this situation, the consent of the father will typically have to be obtained in order for the adoption to proceed. ‘Alleged’ or ‘Putative’ fathers are probably the most common type of father in a situation where an adoption plan is being made. These are men who are not married to the birth mother, their name is not on the birth certificate, and they have not supported the child.
Many states in the U.S. have putative father registries. This is a legal option for a putative (possible) birth father to protect his right to receive notice of an impending adoption plan by the birth mother. If a man has intercourse with a woman he isn’t married to, and if he wants to protect his right to receive legal notice if she makes an adoption plan, he needs to file with the putative father registry in the state where sex occurred. If he fails to do so within the prescribed period of time for the respective state, he loses his right to receive notice and his rights can therefore be terminated involuntarily. Even in states without registries, there is a time limit for the putative father to object. ‘Unknown’ fathers are those in situations where the birth mother identifies more than one man as a possible birth father or can be the case in a rape situation. Expectant mothers considering adoption are sometimes trying to leave an unhealthy or even abusive situation with the birth father. It will be important for the legal professionals the expectant mother is working with to be aware of her situation so the adoption can be handled in the most legal, secure, and safe manner.
**Much of the content is taken from ‘Adopting in America: How to Adopt Within One Year’ (Revised for 2018-19) by Randall Hicks with input also from several fellows of the Academy of Adoption and Assisted Reproduction Attorneys.
Alabama has a putative birth father registry. Putative birth fathers are required to register no later than 30 days post-birth or their consent is implied. The identity of the men listed with the registry can only be released by court order. Many counties additionally require notice to a putative birth father if known by the birth mother, even if he does not file with the registry. If the putative birth father objects, the court will look at his behavior during the pregnancy and see if he abandoned his responsibilities toward the mother/fetus and if the best interests of the child will be served by adoption.
California does not have a putative birth father registry. “Alleged” birth fathers (which generally means men not married to the birth mother, not listed on the birth certificate, not legally adjudged the father, and who have never had the child in his home and held out as his own child), must be given notice of alleged paternity and adoption, unless he can’t be located with due diligence. The court can dispense with notice to an unknown or unlocatable alleged father, and terminate his rights in an ex parte proceeding after the child’s birth. The same can be done if the alleged father fails to file a paternity action within 30 days of being served with notice of the pending adoption, or 30 days of the child’s birth, whichever is later. If an alleged father objects in court, he must prove he acted responsibly to meet the birth mother’s needs, and also that he objected promptly to the adoption, within a short time after he knew or should have known about the pregnancy. If he can’t prove he did both these things, the adoptive parents need only prove the child’s best interests are served by being with them, rather than the birth father. If he did do both of those things, the adoptive parents must prove he is unfit in order to terminate his rights. “Unfitness” requires clear and convincing proof of either a serious felony, or abandonment (six months of no support or communication if the child is with a nonparent). Alleged birth fathers wishing to cooperate may sign either a Waiver of Notice or Denial of Paternity before or after the birth, witnessed by a notary or adoption agency social worker, and it can be filed with the court post-birth and result in the ex parte termination of his parental rights without any notice to him.